Thursday 13 December 2012

Heart to Heart: HOW CHEATING AND LYING RUINS A RELATIONSHIP




Cheating and lying in relationship can lead to serious trust issue. When couples cheat and lie in their relationship, everybody gets hurt, including the the cheater. Relationship should be based on trust, love and mutual respect, non of which are representative of cheating. Cheating and lying can cause this following;

1. HURT: feelings of hurt and
betrayal are normal when cheating and lying enters a relationship. To cheat is to break the commitment in a monogamous relationship, which causes hurt and disappointment for other person. They often begin to question if other aspect of the relationship were honest and sincere

2. ANGER: many people can become very angry when they found out they've been cheated on. It is uncommon for people to scream, yell or cut all communication with someone who cheated or lied. In some instance, people may react violently.

3. LOSS OF TRUST: Trying to repair a relationship after cheating and lying is a long, difficult road. once a person has been lied to and cheated on, it may be difficult for them to trust their partner ever again. They may be over suspicious about their partner's actions or whereabouts.

Therefore, in other to keep your relationship going, avoid cheating and lying.

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